In light of the recent tragedy that unfolded on the University of Utah campus, UCEBT therapist and trauma expert Ashley Greenwell has spoken about the importance of diction when counseling traumatized students. 
A video of the interview can be accessed here. 

Those suffering with grief and trauma are encouraged to seek help from highly qualified professionals within our community.

Local resources: 

Intermountain Health Care
The Sharing Place
University of Utah Healthcare
Utah Center for Evidence Based Treatment

Web Resources: 
https://optionb.org/book
https://www.apa.org/helpcenter/grief.aspx
https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/12/the-secret-life-of-grief/281992/